Unfortunately,
co-author of the texts used to teach Negotiation and Deal-Making (NDM) skills
at Full Sail University, Roger Fisher, transcended
this lifetime on August 25, 2012 at the age of 90. Fisher co authored the book “Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In” with William Ury and
Bruce Patton and the book, “Get what you want: Improve Your Relationships:Beyond Reason Using Emotions as you Negotiate.” Fisher advanced the theory of
talking to those whom some may consider terrorist- minded human beings. He used
the principles of listening to
ascertain the concerns of Iran’s Ayatollah during the 1981 hostage crisis.
Fisher says, “[One] can learn more by listening than by judging from a
distance.” In an effort to access the root of the dissension between countries,
he advocates that a President should use second level people to
initiate negotiations.
Stevland
Morris, my cyber mentor, is so troubled by the tensions rising due to the threats being made by North Korean leader Kim Jong-un to wage nuclear war against the U.S. and its
allies that he is requesting an invitation
from President Obama to personally visit Jong-un as a third side to obviate
the devastating “Evil”
that would result from such an attack on humanity. In an interview with, Mesha McDaniel, Sir Stevland Morris expressed gratitude for the Divine Blessings of being
the personification of Stevie Wonder, but he believes that the Creator also has
a more Supreme Ordination for his life.
One
of Fisher's co-authors and colleagues, William Ury, corroborates his
theory, referring to the second level team as "the third side" of a conflict. Ury
defines the third side as, “us, the community, the friends, the allies, the
family members, the neighbors.” Ury goes on to explain that the role of the
third party is to help take conflicting parties to the “balcony… a metaphor for
a place of perspective where we can keep our eyes on the prize.” We remind the
parties of a conflict what is at stake and help them get to the 'balcony' in
resolving the conflict. In his conclusion, Ury empowers us with the secret to
peace, which is, “The Third Side.” He recounts an African Proverb, “When spider
webs unite, they can halt even the Lion,” and analogizes that, “if we’re able
to unite our third side webs of peace, we can even halt the lion of war.” Ury
admits that in its simplicity, it is not easy to resolve conflicts involving
the use of weapons of mass destruction; however, he avers that in his almost
four decades of involvement of global negotiations, he has, "yet to
see a conflict that cannot be transformed" utilizing the third party
approach. He further invites us to consider taking the third side to assist in
bringing the world a step closer to peace.

From
the comments made during the Wonder and Hayes backstage interview at the Academy of
Country Music Awards, I surmise that liken to Jesus and many of the great
prophets that followed in His footsteps, Sir Stevland is an ambassador of love
and peace, who is destined to use his music to help save the planet from
self-destruction. There is no doubt in my mind that, just as the pied piper in
the fable saved the town from being destroyed by rats with his pipe, Sir Stevland
can use the Harmonica Man and his sultry pipes, to turn shouting threats of
harm into singing songs of happiness; thus potentially saving the world through love and music.
However,
for “Blind Faith Negotiations to obviate the evil of systematization," that could
result in nuclear war, it will be necessary to organize a dynamic team to assists in accomplishing this task. As Stevie Wonder’s 'online graduate student' artist manager, I would say to
President Obama, in considering your second-level or your third side
negotiation team, “Please contract renowned and vetted negotiator, William Ury
of the Harvard Negotiation Project to coach and accompany Sir Stevland, as well
as myself to help conduct Stevie’s business affairs and to manage his diet, while I
simultaneously make real-world connections to gain mastery of negotiation skills.” With a third party team, ordained by
The Most High, that includes Stevland Morris, William Ury, and Queen Searles, among others; the United States of America will be blessed to have a balcony
experience where we can all enjoy life more harmoniously on Higher Grounds.